“You’re just bitter.” This is a phrase commonly used to silence women. Another variation says, “You are so unforgiving.”
The bitterness accusation is used to bully a woman and tell her how she “should” feel instead of asking her how she does feel. Someone who uses this label expects her to pretend there has been no harm, no foul. She is expected to pretend the one who abused her is a great person, even when she knows he is a terrible person. If she does not pretend, it is because she is “bitter and unforgiving.”
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